13.7 — Sin #6: Niching Without Language
Even if identity is perfect, the language must match the world.
If your language is:
- too “self-help-y”
- too vague
- too polished
- too corporate
- too generic
- too intellectual
- too emotionally neutral
…it doesn’t matter how accurate your identity is.
People trust the person who speaks like them.
Examples:
- tradies don’t say “optimize”
- engineers don’t say “alignment”
- mums don’t say “actualization”
- teachers don’t say “capacity expansion”
- HYROX athletes don’t say “holistic performance frameworks”
Language makes the identity real.
Niches collapse when the language doesn’t match the world.